Who’s in charge of YOUR life? In the car of your life…the burnt orange car if you’re an Instigator communicator and ocean blue if you’re an Empathizer communicator…are you sitting in the passenger seat, expecting the auto-pilot to drive your life where you want it to go? No way, Jose.
YOU ARE IN THE DRIVER’S SEAT OF YOUR LIFE
An Empathizer client coached to use TALK2ME© tools, said:
“I am in control of my mood. I didn’t have to change myself. I’m not dwelling on it. I’m not bragging about it. I view people differently now, and it makes me feel better.”
It’s a shame that you have probably spent more time in driver education classes than in communicator education school, even though you communicate far more than you drive. Well, there’s no time like the present to improve your communication skills.
A CHANGE OF SCENERY…I DIDN’T SEE IT THAT WAY BEFORE
Although there’s no need to change who you are, simply by using TALK2ME© tools you will create a change in your perspective, and you will come to realize that you…
…are in charge of your life for life
…are willing to give yourself chances for happiness
…won’t allow someone else to drive your life
…have a good outlook on life
…know how to boost your mood by thinking positively
…cannot sit in the passenger seat and expect the car of your life to take you where you want to go, while you clench your teeth and push your feet through the floorboards
Have someone else drive your life? No, thanks! After all, the happy pills and anti-misery pills are something you don’t really need to take. You are in the driver’s seat of your life, putting decisions into gear and making your way toward your goals.
YOU’RE THE LUCKIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD
You’re the luckiest person in the world. How lucky? So lucky that there’s no place you’d rather be than at work on your communication skills, because you know that arriving at your end destination depends on it.
Psychologist Dr. Dennis O’Grady is a relationship communication expert. He can be reached at 937-428-0724.