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	<title>Comments on: You&#8217;ve Got To Calm Down</title>
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	<description>Dr. Dennis O&#039;Grady customizes business programs for customer-centered communication. Past programs designed and developed for major corporate clients have resulted in supervisors, managers and executives elevating their communication strengths.</description>
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		<title>By: Scott S</title>
		<link>http://www.drogrady.com/personal-relationships/youve-got-to-calm-down/comment-page-1/#comment-19524</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2007 15:35:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Dr.O&#039;Grady,

You asked me to email you something, but I don&#039;t remember your email address, so I will just leave it here and hopefully you will read it eventually. I hope you find it useful.




my heart connects with vision
and i see all that i love
from the valleys to the oceans
and the patterns of the stars
this is where you are,
you are a cornerstone in the structure of god

I would trade in salvation for a pair of walking shoes
a map, a coat, a compass
to find my way to you
they will lead me home
through the sleepless unknown

we can scream or we can whisper
how we will always love each other
or we could wade in murky water
until the current pulls us under
you are my undertow
and i feel you flow beneath my feet

so i sleep on my back
i hear the stars sing lonely psalms
and if they sing loud enough
maybe i will have the courage to sing along</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Dr.O&#8217;Grady,</p>
<p>You asked me to email you something, but I don&#8217;t remember your email address, so I will just leave it here and hopefully you will read it eventually. I hope you find it useful.</p>
<p>my heart connects with vision<br />
and i see all that i love<br />
from the valleys to the oceans<br />
and the patterns of the stars<br />
this is where you are,<br />
you are a cornerstone in the structure of god</p>
<p>I would trade in salvation for a pair of walking shoes<br />
a map, a coat, a compass<br />
to find my way to you<br />
they will lead me home<br />
through the sleepless unknown</p>
<p>we can scream or we can whisper<br />
how we will always love each other<br />
or we could wade in murky water<br />
until the current pulls us under<br />
you are my undertow<br />
and i feel you flow beneath my feet</p>
<p>so i sleep on my back<br />
i hear the stars sing lonely psalms<br />
and if they sing loud enough<br />
maybe i will have the courage to sing along</p>
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		<title>By: Victor</title>
		<link>http://www.drogrady.com/personal-relationships/youve-got-to-calm-down/comment-page-1/#comment-19116</link>
		<dc:creator>Victor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2007 14:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t calm down about money.  I always worry about not having enough. Would you write an article soon about how Empathizers treat and think of money differently than Instigators? I&#039;m an I-type who knows how to pinch a penny. Es don&#039;t seem to put a whole lot into having nicer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t calm down about money.  I always worry about not having enough. Would you write an article soon about how Empathizers treat and think of money differently than Instigators? I&#8217;m an I-type who knows how to pinch a penny. Es don&#8217;t seem to put a whole lot into having nicer.</p>
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		<title>By: Dale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2007 13:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;ve taught me to enjoy myself instead of continually trying to prove myself to others. Here&#039;s my problem. I don&#039;t do well with success. I wake up in a cold sweat. Now I know that I can make things blossom or die by how I approach them. That&#039;s goes for people and my relationships, too. You&#039;ve helped me see why and how I&#039;m a &quot;powerful producer of results&quot; as an &quot;Inventor&quot; communicator subtype.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve taught me to enjoy myself instead of continually trying to prove myself to others. Here&#8217;s my problem. I don&#8217;t do well with success. I wake up in a cold sweat. Now I know that I can make things blossom or die by how I approach them. That&#8217;s goes for people and my relationships, too. You&#8217;ve helped me see why and how I&#8217;m a &#8220;powerful producer of results&#8221; as an &#8220;Inventor&#8221; communicator subtype.</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Dennis O'Grady</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Dennis O'Grady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2007 10:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Remember this: There are ways you can learn to calm yourself down when your emotions are churned up and dragging you down. How to increase your response-ability when you&#039;re feeling small about giant emotions?  Put simply: By using the &quot;Talk to Me&quot; system.

But you don&#039;t want to be the communicator type you are?  You were born to be who you are, without being stuck forever in an emotional or communication rut! By using new talk moves, as an Empathizer (E-type) or Instigator (I-type) communicator you will quickly grow in wisdom, compassion, less anxiety and greater peace of mind as the strong and empathetic man or woman you are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Remember this: There are ways you can learn to calm yourself down when your emotions are churned up and dragging you down. How to increase your response-ability when you&#8217;re feeling small about giant emotions?  Put simply: By using the &#8220;Talk to Me&#8221; system.</p>
<p>But you don&#8217;t want to be the communicator type you are?  You were born to be who you are, without being stuck forever in an emotional or communication rut! By using new talk moves, as an Empathizer (E-type) or Instigator (I-type) communicator you will quickly grow in wisdom, compassion, less anxiety and greater peace of mind as the strong and empathetic man or woman you are.</p>
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